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Originally Posted by CantExplain
That does it. Your T is not fit to practice.
I make way less money than my wife and that is NOT grounds for divorce.
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I agree with you. t was being awfully hard on my h yesterday for the completely wrong reason and then accused me of 'protecting' him. Well hell yes, I'm loyal to someone I love. i didn't understand that whole thing at all. I don't need somebody to provide for me. what are my arms and legs broken?! we both do our part to provide for our family.
It would have been okay if she was only being hard on him for yelling at me over going back to therapy/not wanting me to. That's what she should have been focusing on in my opinion not grilling me about my finances despite what some here think.
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
Johari Window...old school, indeed. Haven't heard that one since it turned up in business curricula in the '80's. I'll bet that's when some T's got it in their training.
I've never met a T that had anything worthwhile to say about employment, the work force, or finances. Maybe there are some who specialize in employment areas, but basic Ts live in a bubble of their own making (as self-employed), in the bubble of Universities (not a model of employment any other industry follows), or in often mismanaged agencies. They just are clueless. And they are just as subject to discomfort around money and its relation to self-worth issues as anybody else.
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thanks for this FKM. i've pretty much decided by now that a good bit of what she was saying yesterday was more about 'her stuff' than me. anyway i'm going to tell her that my finances are not up for discussion going forward.