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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
me me! I do sand trays every now & again. i did one a couple weeks or so ago. I have been doing them for going on 7 years with current t, i've lost count how many I've done by now. (during the period of time she lived in another state and we did phone sessions, i made my own sand tray at home so i could still do them, i didn't have near as many miniatures as she does though so those were kinda limited) but they've been really helpful to me in getting me talking about stuff. also i occasionally have done Active Imaginations using the scenes I've created, and that's been really helpful too.
also i tend to talk to myself and to the objects i'm placing in the sand while i'm doing them, and i know t is listening really closely to what i say even though i feel like i'm just babbling. after i make one, we stand side by side and look at it together. then i name it. after i leave, she takes pictures before she takes it apart. she told me one time you should never take apart your own sand tray. i guess that makes sense. i would love to learn more about the theory behind sand play, but then i don't, because i'm afraid knowing too much might take away the magic of making them, or something.
Now i want to do one again, will have to this coming week!
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is your therapist an analyst? does she do sandPLAY (jungian) or some other approach like worldplay or sandTRAY?
the theory behind it changes slightly depending on which approach they're using. myself, i tend towards sandplay, but I'm learnng about sandtray too. eventually id lke to go to a sandtray worldplay training but theyre out of state in the cape cod area, so who knows when that might happen.
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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
I was skeptical too the first time. plus i stood there feeling stupid about playing in the sand and just made little swirls and stuff at first!
i'm different though with the sand, i like it. sometimes i don't even do a sand tray at all, i just go in there and stick my hands in the sand because it grounds me.
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this is totally okay. I think i did that with my first tray too- played with the sand. its very soothing. I think as adults we have forgotten how to let ourselves let go and play...enjoy sensory input like sand through our fingers...