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Originally Posted by healingme4me
 I'm reading this as your spouse had had an affair many decades ago? And you're worried about getting along with the daughter? |
Its a little fuzzy. We were living together from 1976 to 1981; married in 1981 (aug); she was born in 1981 (nov). So i may be acting a little 'prudish' , also confused a bit.
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I'm reading this as your spouse had had an affair many decades ago? And you're worried about getting along with the daughter? |
I guess. Put like that seems petty of me. I just found out about the daughter.
We have two adult sons and we have always wanted a daughter.
When he had an affair we were not married, just living together.
I am skittish because I have not had successful female relationships.
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