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Originally Posted by junkDNA
ts care is never enough. nothing is ever enough. I'm a vacuum and suck it all up and want more more more for eternity
that's the real situation and I'm so tired of it
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Please disregard if this doesn’t relate to you JD, but I identify with what you’re saying.
PrevT once said that to me, ‘No matter how much I give, it’s never enough.’
At the time, I thought she was blaming me for feeling needy, etc. I thought she was criticizing me. But I checked with her later and she said she wasn’t blaming me, she was observing how past traumas had hurt me.
I was so glad we cleared that up. I carried that guilt (that I’m too much) around for years.
JD, It’s not your fault!