My sister and I have planned so many interventions with my dad that my brother nixed. I had had enough and wanted to do something, finally! My sister gave her blessing for me to contact my dad's psychiatrist. I don't think dad has seen that psychiatrist much (if at all) in the recent 12 months, but I believe that doctor may still be calling in refills for the medication(s) my dad takes.

I wrote and mailed (it's in the mail, no taking it back) a letter telling my dad's psychiatrist that we're concerned about Dad's heavy drinking while possibly taking psychotropic meds. I didn't tell the doctor what we think he should do, I just told the doctor we are concerned and that Dad has injured himself a lot, had blackouts, and withdrawal shakes in the mornings. I also wrote to the doctor what our family history of mental illness is. I have a strong suspicion that if the doctor ever asked in the past, that Dad said little or nothing. Dad has a history of lying, making up stories, and omitting important information. I also told that psychiatrist about Dad's behavior/symptoms. Again, I didn't offer any thoughts on a diagnosis for him. I just provided symptoms, feedback from others, and again, the family history.

I have been so extremely stressed these last few weeks. It's been painful. I'm glad I see my psychiatrist this week, and also my therapist.