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Old Nov 17, 2018, 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Lrad123 View Post
I am surprised though by how many PC folks have unlimited contact with their T’s between sessions. For the moment, I don’t feel bad about it because in a strange way I think my T did this for caring reasons. At least that’s what I’m telling myself.
I am too. However, when you think of how many people who are NOT in PC but in therapy, it's probably not as many people as we really think.

Also yes, I am the same. At first it felt like a punishment and I was ANGRY. Then I started to realize, he saw stuff I didn't and he did this out of care, because it was getting too much for me. I couldn't stop it on my own.

However, it still sucks sometimes when I do wish I could email on a weekend when I'm spiraling but in my case, I've spent my entire life dealing alone with stuff like that so I know how to get out of it, it just sucks that I'm STILL alone.

I do like the feeling of less stress in our relationship now though.
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