{{Tisha}}

So sorry for your pain.
It IS so very hard to always feel as tho one has to be the bigger person, isn't it? And exhausting besides. I believe many of us have experienced some version or another of this, often within our own families. And nobody can hurt you like your own loved ones. ~sigh~

Our eventual decision was to send Holiday cards with brief notes re the doings of our kids & so forth. But perhaps that's not something you would want to do. :sad:

The only thing I can say right now is: Take a little time -- then do what's really in your heart.

love and support,

Chyia, fighting some of this too <3