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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
He is not working his way back to you, he is confusing you because he is challenged leo. This not giving up will only lead you to more emotional confusion and disappointments that will trigger you into having these confusing cycles where you reach out for help and support but you don't want to hear the reality of what you are really dealing with fully. This guy doesn't have the ability to handle relationships never mind the confusion you add to that challenge with him because of your own challenges. That is why he goes silent.
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No he went silent because our relationship totally fell apart. I’m getting through to him and he’s telling me he loves me. Yes he and I both have ptsd, yes he and I both have father issues. Ironically enough we get along with each other’s father’s. There’s not going to be another confusing cycle. I know from my work in the bpd family community that I have to be the emotional leader in this relationship and I can handle it now. He couldn’t handle his previous circumstance but that’s over. It’s going to work out now.