Good question. After four years of divorce she showed interest in me and understood what she had done. My faith led me to forgiveness and it has worked out. A few days ago I mentioned my flashbacks and was very direct about the ectopic pregnancy. She did admit to it. Became very sick but got through it after a couple of hours. I have other questions about the affair but don't think they would be helpful. I think about the actual acts that went on during the affair--pisses me off. What is most hurtful is that another person impregnated my wife. That should have only been me. A lot of work is ahead of me.