Hi ZenZeta,

I am sorry to hear about your desire for a man that talks a lot. He seems to prefer peace and quiet. Is there a possibility you can do things together that don't involve talking a lot such as playing a Monopoly game or watching a movie together? My current husband was very quiet when we first met. When he learned I was safe, he started talking more. Maybe that will happen with him, too. I don't know, because I cannot predict the future. Sometimes what we think of as being the perfect man is not actually right for us. For instance, I wanted a man who was a good dancer. He doesn't particularly enjoy dancing, but he enjoys watching me dance to music.