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Originally Posted by UCLAFan
I hate being asked what's wrong with you & why don't you have kids.i have had people say oh you must be picky & that's why you are alone.i admit I'm picky but for good reason.dated and lived with a loser when i was in my mid to late 20's & after i left him he staked me.i wasn't picky with him & now i know red flag when i see them
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Hi UCLAFan. You are single for all the right reasons. You are very disciplined and would not just jump into any relationship to alleviate loneliness.
Next time someone asks you a rude question like that, you can ask in your mind:
"Why are
you married? How did such a judgmental and insensitive man like you actually find someone who wants to be with you for the rest of her life?"
Also, it is possible that they feel stuck in their own DRAMA relationship; or are bitter over their regrets about not being able to do things that they really wanted to do due to having a family too soon. In other words, they may be just envious of your freedom. When you think about it, people who are truly happy and content are able to say:
"I am happy with my own life;
and I am okay with you being happy with your own life."
The way these men talk to you speaks a lot about their own insecurity.
My hats off to you for your refusal to compromise and settle for anything less than the best relationship with the best man (when too many people settle for less these days). You go girl!
