I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Sisabel I understand what you mean. I agree that your daughter is acting pretty selfish, although perhaps that's not a nice thing to say. But it does seem like she's just using you to accomodate her needs, and I don't think that's fair. I'm afraid I must agree with your counselor. I'd suggest to talk to her about this and see how it goes. Just tell her that you you need some space and that this is being very stressful for you. Try to set up some boundaries with her. Be kind, but firm. Remember that you can't control her reaction to what you say. You can only try your best to be kind to her. I don't think it's fair that you're being treated this way by her. It's good that you're seeing a counselor! That means that you do want to get help and to get better. Be proud of yourself for that. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. Please don't give up. I hope you'll be able to get the help you need and deserve. Try to hang on. You can do this! You're strong, I know that. I believe in you. Stay strong, Sisabel. Stay safe and take care of yourself. I hope things will get better soon for you. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this