In my situation , as I could already see what the issues were and the behaviour had already been proved to me , it did then become pointless to complain or try to get resolution on it. I wasn't going to get anywhere and wouldn't set myself up for more gaslighting , frustration and anger. If a client is seeing this in therapy , leaving is often the best option. If it feels wrong , often times it is , we're getting that warning from somewhere. But we do like to imagine we can trust these people. Sadly , some of them let us down badly , and often they don't respect other professionals and their work either.