Hey TishaBuv,
I apologise if you read what I wrote in a way that hurt your feelings. It wasn't meant that way at all. I was simply surprised how many people in a small community had huge resentments against their family such that they were not longer in contact at all. It made me appreciate the work that goes into holding together family relationships on both sides, even if the result is less than perfect. You have two sons who are doing well socially and in their studies/ work. You've achieved that through your hard work. I meant to be appreciative of that.
Best wishes your way,
Saidso