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Originally Posted by saidso
Hey TishaBuv,
I apologise if you read what I wrote in a way that hurt your feelings. It wasn't meant that way at all. I was simply surprised how many people in a small community had huge resentments against their family such that they were not longer in contact at all. It made me appreciate the work that goes into holding together family relationships on both sides, even if the result is less than perfect. You have two sons who are doing well socially and in their studies/ work. You've achieved that through your hard work. I meant to be appreciative of that.
Best wishes your way,
Saidso
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Thanks so much for this. People rarely, if ever, go out of their way to care about others’ feelings.
From your post, it resonated with me that I am just pathetic, complaining on here and have no right to. I heard, ‘you are bored and need to get a life’.
Frankly, I know that’s true. I know there is some MH issue with me. I was once diagnosed with MDD. I suppose that’s what I have and why I am too depressed to ‘get a life’.
I’m pretty mortified with myself for posting all my personal details on here, too. It feels like every thread I start, I just get criticized and find myself having to explain and defend myself. Then I get told that I have so much and need to count my blessings and get a life. No offense to well-meaning poster’s honesty. I am smart enough to hear this truth.
I just wanted support for this one subject on this thread regarding my son not calling me, but it went straight to pick apart all my details and tell me to get a life. I’m not angry at anyone. I hear this truth resonate from the people as a whole. So there’s no point in posting anything for me.
