I'm sorry you have experienced that Ruby. People can be very confusing at times. Try to start every day fresh if you can. That often helps. If the fresh day does not feel fresh and old issues seem to be lingering, just try gently asking the person if there's anything they want to talk about. That's better than shouting but I know you're already aware of that.

When we work with people, just like when we post on PC, we just don't know what's going on in their life. Perhaps they had a fight that morning with their spouse, or their car broke down, or they got bad news from their doctor, or money troubles.....I could go on. Keep bringing your focus back to you. We cannot control other people. We control how we respond to them. That is both our power and our peace.