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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Last night really turned things around all for the better. He apologized, he quickly regrouped after a heated argument that HE started, he saw that he was repeating what happened in his prior marriage, and he said this stops now... the fighting. I truly hope this means he will change his behavior and reactions to me. But now I have greater hope for better days with less fighting. I decided, like I wrote above, if I experience just one more toxic fight, I’m leaving and I’m done. He finally pushed me to my limits last night with the latest fight we had.
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This is wonderful news, Eve. People CAN change for the better if they really want to. It's a hard, continuing effort, but there's nothing like a special relationship to provide that motivation.
Very best wishes to the both of you.