Thank you for your understanding. The issue of who we distribute our intimacy seems to be a common problem which necessitated the OP.

Actually yes to both. After I decided to leave the groups who sent me spiraling in the first place some of the people in those groups tried to lure me right back in, refusing to understand that I was juggling both misunderstandings with friends and hectic transitions simultaneously. Others in my so-called "support group" have forced me to come out of my shell even though I am someone more likely to enhance current friendships rather than branch out. A large part of why I left the groups I previously enjoyed as a young dumb college student is they were too sensitive and personal with seemingly everyday occurences. So yes people expected me to open up and share everything about me, but at the same time I risked criticism for what I shared. Not helpful when I've been going through this rough patch in my life. And most people at where I attended school were flashy with their social life and flaunted it on SM. Kind of like "everybody else is doing it, why not you", that sort of mentality.