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Originally Posted by MsSunflower
That really sucks tecomsin. I hate people like that, you deserve better. I'd rather have no friends than fake ones. Good for you for standing up for yourself and not letting her treat you like that.  |
Yeah I am remarkably upset about her pro forma apologies and then immediately move on to another topic and if I persist then she doesn't know how to respond to 'all this'. She hasn't once acknowledged that she understood that my feelings were hurt. So as I have tried to express my hurt feelings I have just gotten more and more enraged at her repetitive, automatic responses that don't acknowledge neither my feelings nor any specific thing I said. She just says something to the effect of
"I'm sorry. I've already said I'm sorry. I don't know what else to say, and then changes the subject.
Do you think it is possible she doesn't understand how to acknowledge someone else's feelings or it is more likely this lack of caring and concern is really about how she feels about me in particular?