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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I think you need to consider how much he consumes be it alcohol or drugs. When a person is constantly using drugs and self medicating they are not showing you their true selves. What this typically means instead is they are are participating in avoiding their own issues by self medicating. Just because a person can be "so much fun" doesn't mean you are experiencing the true whole person.
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I've never been 100% sure about the drugs. I have my suspicions but haven't proven much except that he did cocaine about 4 years ago. And he told me hes done acid about 3 times since we've been together. I suspect it's more but I haven't been able to prove it. The alcohol has always been a problem. He has definitely used it to self medicate especially after his father died.