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Originally Posted by liveforsummer
I just started catching up on PC and after just reading this page, oh my gosh I am so sorry of this horror you are living through WC! I’m not caught up on everything but can I ask if you have a lawyer to stop him from cutting you off from your accounts? You show nothing but kindness and compassion on PC, sending you hugs!
Hugs to all and that your struggles lighten.
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Hi!
. It's GREAT to have you around!
I've been wondering how life has been treating you!??
Yes, I am going through ALOT!
Just unbelievable stuff from a man I had thought was my best friend for 27years.
I am still so Shicked by his behaviors (lying constantly, living a double life, and much, much more).
The more I learn, the more repulsed I become.
He has been misleading me, adamantly telling me that HE wants cooperative mediation. In the meantime, he pulls stunts like this. VERY DECEITFUl, which has been his M.O. Throughoutthis whole mess!!!
Time will tell what type of a divorce he truly wants. Here I was, thinking we'd have a cooperative divorce, no matter what he had done. Yet, he keeps doing more and more to me. I amnot sure one can manage to have an amicable divorce when his ongoing actions are so hostile.
II has all been "bad enough," without adding more deceit and pain each week.
I had envisioned a divorced where we negotiated and got things done for the good ... For each of us. I NEvER imagined he'd be so misleading abs so hostile.
He tells me and texts me one thing and does the opposite. Very deceitful.
He gives me passwords to our accounts and then changes the passwords. He has taken OUR accounts and made them HIs.
He is now... Justnow... Telling me the accounts are no longer applicable to me.
Simply not true and not in alignment with the law.
I have talked to him and have given him another chance to cooperate with the laws and with one another. I am hoping to hear he'd rather start down an amicable road. Time will tell.
It's just ridiculous! I am not the offender! I have been faithful and... True in every way.
This all gets very old. It'smaking people sick! It makes me very unwell. All medical conditions flaring all at once, etc. It makes my mother very I'll (who has only tried to help him fir many years)..
People give him opportunities to just stop and to start on a better path; yet he continues to try to dupe people and shows no remorse at all. I honestly do not know thus guy. Very scary stuff.
Anyway...
How are YOU doing?
I hope you are well?
Hugs!
