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Old Jul 09, 2019, 06:10 PM
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Well I am not a psychopath but I’d not tolerate people sitting on my coach and moping about their lives. Certainly not on a weekly basis.

I find it absolutely unrealistic.

First of all in order for them to come to my house they need my permission to do so. I am either not home or too busy. So no they can’t come over. Sure i might arrange lunch date or coffee meeting which I’d have an hour for. Then I move on. They can come over sometimes too but not to endlessly mope every week and sprawl on my coach lol.

Yesterday I went for dinner with a group of old friends. We mutually talked about life. If someone complained about things like illness or what not it was brief. If it was a moping session I’d skip our next get together. Now I have close friends with whom we do mutually share some sad news and sometimes people need the kind of support in hard times but it most certainly isn’t moping and venting one-sided therapy session on a weekly basis.

Listen you are saying you are a psychopath yet you often share your difficulty saying “no” to people or setting common sense boundaries. I’d think someone who has no feelings and no empathy would have easier time to just tell people to F..off. I have feelings but I have way less patience for BS than you!

I’d not tolerate this whatsoever.

Are you sure you were diagnosed correctly? Why can’t you set up boundaries?
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