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Originally Posted by Omers
Thanks for sharing @ Lemoncake I have similar difficulty asking for things and often stole or went without because of it. T and I haven’t gotten there yet so when I read your post it was kind of a “oh S* we’re going to have to talk about that too????”  at least I know going into it I am not the only one. |
I think everything has a time and a place. I've been with R for 2.7 years now- no way could I have mentioned this at the start. You'll get there when you get there.
Shame is a big thing for. Others talking about Erotic transference and being jealous of his family helped me- just to normalize it all .