For me, a person's text etiquette reveals where you stand on their list of social priorities and social options.

If you're just an option to the other person, they will make little to any effort to text you, let alone respond to your texts within a reasonable frame of time.

But, if your friendship is a priority and they respect your boundaries with text vs. phone communication style, then you'd think they would either call you if you hate texting, or would text you and would respond without prompting to your texts, within a reasonable time frame.