I know it a total overreaction on my part. It's one of those expectations that I set for myself to have themed parties with matching cakes. In 3 birthdays this month, all three have been stressful days so it's more of wanting to fix that and make it a better day by having a party for them.

Now H is wanting to go on a mini vacation this weekend. It might do everyone some good to go hang out in a hotel and visit a place we've never been.