Hello wanderingdiva: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC. I see this is your first post. So... welcome to Psych Central.

I don't know if there are going to be members, here on PC, who will be able to be of help with regard to your concern. Perhaps there will be. However, in order for them to possibly be of help, I think you're going to need to go into more detail. At least to my mind, there's not enough information here for members to be able to offer much in the way of insights into your relationship. At least that is my perspective with regard to your post.

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.