Sorry you were made to feel so bad about yourself crisscross. I agree with what the other 2 people here have said. Keep reminding yourself that you did nothing wrong. Even the HR person said that. Just sounds like a total misunderstanding or misinterpretation by the woman who complained to HR. I think companies now are in total paranoia mode over women and their feelings in the office ever since that whole "Me Too" thing exploded. And I agree with theoretical....it was a real sneaky petty thing that the woman did by going to HR to complain about you. Especially if all you did was talk to her a couple times. If HR had taken some kind of action against you, you'd have a case against the company and I'd be talking to an employment lawyer as well as a case against the woman. May be a blessing in disguise to have a reason to ignore this woman from now on. Stay far away from her toxic self.