I have a hard time respecting healthy boundaries and giving space to my partner..we talk and text a lot, but it’s been hard for us to reach the next level because I am needy and clingy...we will have an amazing night together into the following day, a few hours after I leave I become needy, and paranoid blowing up hid phone..we would be seeing eachother more often (I feel) if I wasn’t so needy..just some background info: I come from an upbringing in a household that involved an alcoholic father..so needless to say I do have abandonment issues...I also have a hard time relaxing, over analyze everything and paranoid..if he can’t pick up my call and answer my text, I become worried he is ghosting me (he isn’t) he is independent and has a pretty good circle of friends who he talks to throughout the day, etc...if anyone can give insight or any recommendations for good books so I can start to work on this lifelong issue of mine, I would appreciate it..I am in the process of looking for a therapist also but in the meantime I want to do something on my own....we have been together few months