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Yes. Have boundaries and enforce them. Being kind of heart doesn't mean you have to be a pushover. Incidentally, it's the pushovers and people pleasers who turn out to be the biggest dicks deep down inside.


Why does it matter? If he's mad at you, then it's on him to tell you why. The silent game is for children. If he's deliberately ignoring you for whatever reason, whether it's manipulation or inconsideration, then he's the one who's being an asshole.

I don't want to make you mad or further upset you, but I actually think that this is about you, not him. Other people are always and forever going to do what they are going to do. No amount of texting and fretting and stressing and worrying is going to change that. If it did, he would not be doing this any more. But he is. And so, you are left with a man who is not meeting your needs and yourself. The only one you can do anything about is you. I would step back and reassess the relationship. Am I enjoying this? No. Does he seem to care? It appears not. Does he seem to appreciate me? Again, evidently not. So, then what exactly are you doing with this guy?

There are many kind, thoughtful men out there who are interesting and smart and handsome who will not blow off your attempts to communicate. I understand that being alone can be lonely, but you are better off finding the right guy than chasing around someone who cannot even be bothered to respond to a simple text.

Nice women do not always finish last. But some men are jerks and they will try to take advantage of your sweet disposition. Don't let them do it. You deserve better.