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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
Well there is usually a reason someone may be acting a certain way to you or to a few people as opposed to others and also this is more of a general thought that came to mind. Not every single thread I create is me trying to complain and have attention. If it seems that way then I'm sorry, that definitely isn't the case. This is more for general thoughts and conversation. Most people I know actually feel turned off by overly nice people like I've described so I'm not the only one.
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I never said you complain or want attention. I just wonder what makes you want to know those things about people, especially strangers or people you barely know. And if it is helpful for you in some ways. You don’t have to answer. Just a thought.
As about turned off, yes if someone I know well is really a mean person but act as they are nice, I’d be turned off. But if it’s a stranger or I barely know them, I don’t believe I can make assumption they are fake. I don’t see why people would be turned off by “overly” nice people. How do you determine if it’s “overly” nice?
I wonder if being uncomfortable around very friendly and nice people is something to look into...