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Originally Posted by yellow_fleurs
I'm sorry for your past experiences, and yes, you are right it is no cubs fault. They don't have the resources and emotional/mental capability to deal with that. I think it's affected how I relate to others and that may make things worse, because I end up not trusting people I can, and trusting people I can't. That just reinforces the problem.
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I also have trusted people who were not trustworthy …. not good at all grrrrr
I do trust a couple of people who have proved to be trustworthy (so maybe, hopefully I am learning more about what sort of people and red flags to avoid or to not allow them to get close)