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Old Feb 29, 2020, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by lady411 View Post
Thank you Have Hope. I am definitely being more conscious this time about how I respond and handle this incident.
Yesterday, I did make an appointment with a new therapist. Until then I am going to work on myself in creating awareness and educating myself. I have to be very firm in setting some boundaries. I know my relationship with my husband is going to take a great shift towards a different direction. That direction will depend on how he responds.
Ok. I’m glad you’re seeking therapy. Just don’t expect your husband to change. You may change, but he will not. This may be a long process for you before you finally call it quits.
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