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Old Mar 05, 2020, 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by lady411 View Post
The one I’m more concerned about is my 10 yr old. She has witnessed more of our fights and arguments. And of course, I don’t want any of our four children to see abuse as a norm in any of their future relationships.
You've been married for six years, correct? Your 10 year old has been witnessing this twisted and abusive dynamic since the child was 4 years old. Damage is already occurring and has been done on this child for the last six years. IF you don't get out now, more damage will be done and they could be negatively effected by your decision to stay for the rest of their entire lives. Do you really want that responsibility on your shoulders? Damaging your child for the entire rest of their life?
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Thanks for this!
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