On a site like this where so many are interacting there most definitely will be "difficult people" . I have come across them myself. However, while they are present, I have also met some amazing people too. I have met individuals that left me with some "good fruit" even though they were themselves struggling in some way. These individuals never tried to own me either and instead I was able to interact with them in positive caring ways. These individuals have suffered the trauma triangle, but they don't care to use it on others. They tend to have more "depth" to them.

The article I posted is often used by individuals who use unhealthy methods to gain control over others, especially emotional control. Difficult individuals to them tends to be others that don't agree with their POV. Like the trainer that practiced unhealthy control over my daughter and others.