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Originally Posted by Iloivar
Do you think it would help reading the perspectives of those who ghost other people? People do it for many reasons, intentional or not, and if you find some that you're able to sympathize and/or empathize with, perhaps it would lessen your feelings knowing that maybe some of the people that have ghosted you did so for similar reasons.
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I had to check what ghosting means
I don't think it will hurt, although the cases I'm referring to are not related to ghosting, if I understand correctly?
Let me give examples:
1. We are periodically tormented by an alarm that goes on when someone leaves the door open (and the alarm is louder inside our room than near the door). I e-mail one of the directors and she ignores me. Twice.
2. I am given an annual appraisal of 1/5 which is extremely unfair and provokes serious damage, both in my professional and personal life. I ask for the help/support of another director by e-mail, which simply ignores it.
These are maybe two of the most notorious examples.