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Old May 07, 2020, 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I feel that your guy focuses too much on sexual things in women and their looks. Yours and everyone else’s. Was he raised that way?
I don't think so. Both his mother and sister are overweight. I think some of his behaviours may stem from his dad but I'm bot sure what he's done in the past. I know he often says inappropriate things, too. They're both attention seekers, ADHD, and have tendencies of saying inappropriate things for laughs (although they're often the only ones laughing).

Sometimes I think my partner's behaviours stem from his insecurities with his own body image. For example, what he's drawn to in a woman is a body part he's particularly insecure of in himself. I'm wondering if it's become more of an obsession to look rather than looking because he finds them sexy?