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Old May 13, 2020, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
Well, my stance is that I am not taking responsibility for HIS issues. HE is the problem in the relationship. Sure, I know there are some things I do that irritate him, but we've discussed those things. Anyways, he needs to admit he has a problem AND agree to getting help. I am only going with him because we are married. If we weren't married, I would have left long ago.
Oh I understand. But I thought to say that it’s for the benefit of the marriage just to get him on board otherwise he’d be all defensive. Not sure. I hope he does the right thing.