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Old May 24, 2020, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
I told him how I feel because I got depressed. He says he understands and wants me to feel better. But is he just saying that? I hope he can follow through.
I just don’t understand him telling you to eat something. Why?

I do understand him buying something bad for himself or even buying junk for the house, but not trying to convince you to eat it. I just don’t understand it.

I also don’t get how he is afraid men will look at you and wants you to be heavy so men don’t like you. It makes no sense. Plenty of men like heavier or plumper women, not taking about 600lb. You don’t need to be skinny to be liked by men. Is he really thinking like that?

That’s kind of a wrong premise that only thin women are attractive. I am just really confused on this whole story. It’s either you hopefully misinterpret what’s happening with his agenda and the whole roots of male attraction or he is a bit insane and personally I’d be freaking out big time.
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Have Hope