What I meant was not about money but stuff is closing quickly so there’s less quality on the market imo...

This is what I’m going to say....most people move away from family at some point....it’s not about the family so much as other opportunities. In your mom’s case she probably wants to see her grand-babies...and you’re doing so well an found a person of your own. There’s a transitional phase where you move from your primary family to a family of your own, the one you choose. You’re at that point now and it can be rough but it comes with freedom as well. If you don’t have ties you can move anywhere....or if you wanted you could move to San Antonio too. Maybe there’s somewhere where you don’t have to worry about as much racism? Think of what you’ll gain not lose.....