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Old Jul 23, 2020, 06:04 PM
MsLady MsLady is offline
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post

Peace is a very good desired outcome. What will bring you peace?
Thank you, Have Hope!

Peace for me for now is to continue seeing progress being made in him. I'm not budging because I see this as his problem to fix.

Peace for me is having balance. Work on being less reactive, build on my social circle, keep the back-up plan in the forefront, and enjoy my kids. That's really all I can do right now.

Peace is letting go what people think of me. I know who I am and I AM a strong person. I'm going to embrace my mistakes and not attach guilt and shame to them because we're allowed to make mistakes.

I'm not exactly for in-home seperation but I've already distanced myself from him. Having these breaks are good for my mental well-being. Until I become concerned that my children will be in physical danger, which I'm not at all worried about any of us being, then I'll continue taking these breaks and having mama-daughter times with my girls.

Let him work through his own stuff.
Hugs from:
Have Hope