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Old Jul 23, 2020, 09:54 PM
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Thank you, Have Hope!

Peace for me for now is to continue seeing progress being made in him. I'm not budging because I see this as his problem to fix.

Peace for me is having balance. Work on being less reactive, build on my social circle, keep the back-up plan in the forefront, and enjoy my kids. That's really all I can do right now.

Peace is letting go what people think of me. I know who I am and I AM a strong person. I'm going to embrace my mistakes and not attach guilt and shame to them because we're allowed to make mistakes.

I'm not exactly for in-home seperation but I've already distanced myself from him. Having these breaks are good for my mental well-being. Until I become concerned that my children will be in physical danger, which I'm not at all worried about any of us being, then I'll continue taking these breaks and having mama-daughter times with my girls.

Let him work through his own stuff.
That all sounds very positive, all for your own mental health and well being - good!

Yes he needs to work through it, as long as he is actually OWNING UP TO IT.
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