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Old Sep 15, 2020, 06:57 AM
guy1111 guy1111 is offline
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I think notion that men are wild beasts just waiting to ravish random women because their dresses are revealing is a bit out there. Just not the case. At 16 maybe. But even then it’s not girls fault if guys are this way. Also saying that women dress certain way to get men to look at them is really outdated.

I don’t believe a woman needs to “run by” her husband what she should wear. Nope. Ain’t happening. I love my husband dearly but I’d never thought of asking him what I should be wearing for an outing and if my clothes is too revealing.

Some of the things you say kind of sound so old fashioned. Mind you I am not parading myself around in revealing clothes but it’s at no point men’s decision what I should be wearing.
What makes you feel good inside? Would you be willing to compromise on that and find other avenues of happines to substitute part of it if you knew it caused your husband pain while he tried to heal from past wounds?