Oh, I wasn't saying anyone here has "shunned" me, I was referring to my family, friends, and the professionals, none of whom have ever tried bringing up whatever their specific problem with me is. Last pdoc never even brought up me being drunk during or after the appointment(s) leading me to think that was an okay thing to do or that she wouldn't even notice.
But yeah, that post wasn't directed at anyone here. You guys are great.