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Old Oct 30, 2020, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
Thank you.

My husband reeled me in initially by telling me how loving, sweet, devoted and kind he is. Red flag #1. Then he showered me with a lot of attention. Red flag #2. He love bombed me and fell "head over heels in love" within 2 weeks. Red flag #4. When I said to slow down and back off, he cried. He pushed the relationship. Red flag #5. SO many red flags, and I went ahead anyways because he seemed so nice in the beginning and supportive.

Last night when I lost that job offer, he barely could offer any empathy. It crushed me entirely, and his response initially was to just pick up and move on. No empathy for the crushing disappointment I felt.
I can give my opinion based on this post (and others) that he is a Narcissist and an A hole. I’m disgusted by his response to the non job offer He “should get out and move on”. I’m sorry you’ve been in a relationship with such a Twat. (TWATS - those who are always terribly smug )
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