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Originally Posted by Motts
I just finished watching a
on YouTube.
The host discusses the negative impact of triangulation between siblings:
- Pits siblings against each other
- Creates a division, hatred, tension, anger, resentment, and competition
- Roles that we take on when we are forced into triangulation between siblings
When one sibling triangulates me and I call them on it (smear campaign against me), it just escalates their hatred of me which is exhausting to absorb BUT it is validation for me that I'm doing the right thing, by sticking up for myself. |
I know what its like to be hated by family. We have to have an open heart and give them the benefit of the doubt, because they are family. If you cannot love family because of certain things that happen within the household who can you love. Have a heart of gold encased in steel.