But they could always swipe...which ever direction is a no (the dating sites I used predated Tinder and such, so...). Oh, and I tried eHarmony ages ago (like maybe 2002-ish), and they couldn't find me any matches in my area...like the closest was 90 miles away (and I live near a couple major cities). It was like, "You're too much of a weirdo for us to match with anyone."