Well it’s his problem that he is a big spender. Not yours. He can borrow from his parents or brother to treat his cat. I feel bad for a cat but he needs to take care of it, not you. That’s how he lives his life. Goes from a woman to woman and they support him. Unbelievable.

I don’t judge being a spender. I am a spender. The difference is I am a spender of my own money!