Well yeah if he gets married new wife will see it. I am just failing to understand why his new woman even matters? I saw my husbands decree many times because we have it in a our file with important documents and we were tied up to her paying her spousal support etc. No one saw my decree because neither I nor my ex remember what happen to it. No one looks at those. The only thing matters is statement that you are divorced, needed for marrying second time but not actual decree.

I just don’t want you to waste energy on things that don’t matter. Those are not important things. But I get that this is how you want things to be.