@BethRags I don't know, I asked him if he was willing to go to counseling or if there was anything I could do to change his mind. Unfortunately, he is really stubborn and when he makes up his mind he cannot be swayed. We have had a difficult year, but I feel that no effort was put in to fix the relationship and he seems to have given up. Despite the fact that we've had some incredible experiences, he is acting like the entire relationship was a failure.