All of us do that, online or irl. When we don’t feel a connection with the other person we don’t go ahead with this contact.

If you guys and gals, knew how many times I have been rejected as a good company, especially irl, but we cannot have a good connection with everybody.
People have their needs and preferences.
I’m socially awkward so I can’t expect to be the apple of many people eyes. It takes to me a long time to make a friendship and mainly there are based of things we share in common(specially ideas and a way to face life and situations). It’s not easy online or irl.

I have contact with different people because I have two doggies and I socialised myself with the owners, well, I seldom feel comfortable with them. Only a few exceptions. Does it mean the others are inadequate . No, it doesn’t. Only, there is this guy who is more happy-lucky than me and more extrovert and get on better with my partner, there is the woman who is always talking about herself and how special she and her dog is and doesn’t let me to say a word. Then, there is this kind lady or this kind man who share with me about themselves because they trust me. They feel comfortable with me.
Then, there is this other girl who quickly invited me to visit her to her cottage, very extrovert and a lover of animals like me, but I couldn’t go so fast to share place and holidays with another person.

So, you see as my reaction is different with people the same as their reactions are different with me. The same happen with you. Only different is that you, Hope, are more open and extrovert with people than me. This is good. It gives you the opportunity to meet more people than me, but don’t forget that maybe they are not in the same flow as you. Any relation is a taken and given, it’s a double direction and if you don’t feel correspond or the other person doesn’t feel correspond, there will no equality. No respect, no connection.